Embracing Italian Culture (by embracing them)
If you are from the U.S. or England and are getting ready to take a trip to Italy, brace yourself! Cultural norms in Italy are very different than they are in Anglo
derived cultures, including a much less obvious sense of personal space, a directness in social interactions and more emphasis on familial ties. While the culture shock may not be quite as severe as if you were visiting East Asia
or somewhere in Africa, Italian culture can take some getting used to for outsiders. Below are some things to keep your head up for.
The Kiss
When greeting friends and family members, it is common for Italians to exchange kisses regardless of their sex. These are typically deposited high on the cheek and are more of a gentle cheek brush accompanied by kissing noises.
Unlike some other cultures, Italians give two kisses- one on each cheek. To avoid unfortunate accidents, always remember to go to the left first! While it may seem odd to you for one male to greet another with a kiss, it is common
practice in Italy and you shouldn't make anything out of it. Just roll with it or face the consequences of appearing rude and -possibly worse- 'cold'.
Gifts
If you are invited over to an Italian household while there, it is considered polite to bring a small gift. Pastries, chocolates or flowers are always a safe bet, however you should stay away from chrysanthemums as they are considered cemetery flowers and it would be odd or even morbid to bring them. Nice liquor also is considered an acceptable gift
however if you bring wine to a dinner, do not expect it to be served with the meal as the wine will already have been selected for the evening.
The Language
While many Italians speak English, it's not always the case and if you want to break through the thick familial barriers that can sometimes exist, it is
beneficial to speak at least a basic level of Italian. If you are going to Italy and don't speak the language at all, you should look into taking some classes*** or even going to an Italian summer camp to gain your language base. Italians appreciate your effort even if you do not speak perfectly. If you are learning and practicing Italian in Italy , you will be
greeted much more warmly than if you were to try to learn French in France where they typically do not have the patience for that. Italians,
however, will respect your scholarship and you can go home with some Italian in your language arsenal!
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